What is the purpose of a Parenting Plan?

A Parenting Plan is a document that is completed jointly between parents of a child/children. The purpose of the Parenting Plan is to:

  • Focus both parents on the needs of the child;
  • Gives your child a sense of stability and security;
  • Assist everyone involved in the child arrangements by knowing what is expected of them;
  • Creates a clear agreement which both parents can refer back to;
  • Sets out practical decision and solutions about your child, such as their living arrangements, education and health.

The benefits of completing a Parenting Plan

  • Clarity on parenting roles, responsibilities and expectations which reduces misunderstandings between parent’s;
  • Consistency regarding decision making regarding a child’s upbringing when parents are separated or separating.
  • Child’s Well-Being: It prioritises the child’s well-being by addressing their needs, routines, and preferences.
  • Conflict Resolution: Having a plan in place helps resolve disagreements more effectively.
  • Legal Recognition: In some cases, courts may consider a Parenting Plan when making decisions regarding arrangements for children.

Can my child’s wishes and feelings be considered in a Parenting Plan?

If you feel that your child is old enough to have input in their own child arrangements, then their wishes and feelings can be included in a Parenting Plan. However, this is not always appropriate and must be considered in light of their age and understanding.

  • Age-Appropriate Discussions: Tailor your conversations based on your child’s age. Younger children may need simpler explanations, while older ones can engage in more detailed discussions.
  • Listen Actively: Ask your child about their preferences, feelings, and concerns. Listen attentively and validate their emotions.
  • Joint Decision-Making: Include them in decisions related to their routines, activities, and special occasions. For instance, discuss school schedules, extracurricular activities, and holiday plans together.
  • Visual Aids: Use visual aids like calendars or charts to illustrate the plan. Let your child see the agreed-upon arrangements.
  • Reassurance: Reassure your child that both parents love them and are committed to their well-being. Emphasise that the plan is designed to make things easier for everyone.

Ultimately the parents are responsible for making appropriate decisions for a child and what you child wants may not be in their best interests. If you and your former partner cannot agree matters, seek legal advice at the earliest opportunity.

If mediation is appropriate the mediator will discuss the completed Parenting Plan with you and your former partner. One of our Family Law Team will be able to assist you in completing the Parenting Plan. Telephone us on 01924 332395 and ask to speak with a Family Team member to arrange a suitable appointment.

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